If You're Planning to Have Sex on Valentine's Day, Bring These Toys to Bed With You

If you’re looking to spice up foreplay, this one’s for you. It sits between your middle and pointer fingers, and has a little band so it won’t slide off. It’s extremely quiet, has three intensity levels, and is super-versatile — perfect for exploring yourself or a partner. ($65, Dame)

If thinking about pressing a button to switch the settings takes you out of the zone, this vibrator is for you. You can put it on auto pilot, so as you press harder, it increases the vibrations on its own. The sonic vibrations are both intense and gentle at the same time. ($149, Free People)

This vibrator is bendable, so it adjusts to fit you perfectly down there, and uses four strategically-placed motors to get you in the mood. It has 16 vibration settings and can be used in the shower and with a partner. It’s all about what makes you comfortable. ($195, MysteryVibe)

Going on a romantic couple’s trip? Splurging on yourself with a fancy staycation? We’re happy for you. Stash this clitoris-stimulating suction vibrator in your overnight bag and prepare to be blown away by its seven pulsating modes. ($34.99, Lovehoney)

We’re officially living in the future of sex toys. This genius vibrator stays in place during sex thanks to the two wings, while providing intense vibrations to the clitoris. No more holding toys in place while things are heating up. Pro tip: It’s waterproof. ($140, Dame)

This candle is fragrance-free, skin-safe, and made with jojoba and soybean oils, so when it melts down, you can pour the wax onto your partner for a sensual massage. The formula is specially designed to melt at a low temperature, so the oil won’t scald — it’ll just feel pleasantly warm. ($32, Maude)

This cloud-shaped, external-only vibrator is made of the squishiest, silkiest silicone that feels like real skin. You can use it in two ways. The Haptic mode lets you control the intensity by squeezing it (the harder you squeeze, the stronger the vibrations), so you can go at your own pace and explore the intensity that feels good to you. Or, you can set it on one of the preset patterns and intensity levels. It’s perfect for people who don’t like internal toys, or for teasing a partner. Read our full review here. ($66, Unbound Babes)

One end of the vibrator can be inserted into you, while the other rests outside to massage the clitoris. As you go, all that power will be transferred to your partner during penetrative sex. To make sure you’re not distracted, the vibrator is remote-controlled. You’ll both be hands-free and focused on each other. ($126.75, Lelo)

The cutest way to get a little kinky. There’s nothing intimidating about these handcuffs from Bellesa, from the soft lavender color to the silky material and pretty bow ties. They’re also adjustable, so you can decide how much or little restraint you like. Use them on wrists or ankles, or grab two pairs and use them on both. ($29, Bellesa Boutique)

You haven’t lived until you’ve tried a suction vibrator. It simulates oral sex, pulsing air while vibrating at the same time. We love that it has a finger loop for easing holding and can be controlled by a partner through the app. ($109, Vibes Only)

If you’re not convinced a vibrator is for you, give this basic one a try before you write them off. It’s foolproof to use, with its one large button on the bottom that helps you switch from four speeds and two pulsing modes. It’s also easy to hold and is made of body-safe waterproof silicone. It’s never too late to vibe. ($60, Revolve)